I was sent a message this week that had a profound effect on me.
My husband has recently written his memoir. He’s had a very eventful life, and the book is getting great reviews. A long-term friend sent a joint message which in part said “Congratulations Dan. You should be proud of your achievements none the least of which is this publication. Can I just say that through all this Sal is an absolute unsung hero”.
I paused for a moment and reflected on her comment. To be honest I hadn’t thought about my role but was genuinely touched by her acknowledgment. I went on with my day and just so happened to receive a similar message from my bridesmaid, with the added comment that Eden Healing is my story - that it’s the same journey but from my perspective. Initially I was a bit confused.
When we met we were on polar opposite career paths. He was in the military. Id just completed a degree majoring in biology. He was blowing up the environment while I was saving it! I remember thinking “you’ve got to be kidding me” when I found out what he did!!
Now, 26 years later I reflect back and realise his career path taught me what it was like to live alone in a relationship. The anxiety I felt while he was deployed, and the connections and networks I made with other women – especially those that were also alone, all lead me on a path of self-resilience and growth.
It first started with a beautiful kinesiologist in Canberra. Over the next few years I read about anything to do with spirituality and life between lives. It wasn’t until much later that I focused on meditation, sound baths, energetic healing and gathering with other women to find my tribe.
Although my story is vastly different to his we are very intertwined – and yes his journey ultimately helped shape mine. Looking past his strength and bravery he is also very spiritual (not that he’d tell his mates!) so in reality we shaped each other.
I come back to the idea of being an unsung hero and appreciate the recognition of being a silent partner behind someone’s success. That I was just as important, just not as visible. I mention this, because at circle you are recognised and given the opportunity to tell your story, share your success and voice your silent achievements. Your role in life may not be in the spotlight but your ongoing strength, perseverance and stability is worth celebrating.
This is why I gather women together – to celebrate and support each other on our individual journeys and acknowledge our amazingness ✨
